~~Mel~~

~~Mel~~

Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Deep Thoughts...

So what defines a relationship these days? I have been seeing T now for 2 months yet I wonder if he would call me his girlfriend and/or if I should be referring to him as my boyfriend and not just "the guy I'm seeing". I'm in no rush to define things...but at the same time we've hung with each other's families...spent the last 5 nights together...our boys fight like siblings yet are the best of friends...sure feels like a relationship...

I find myself thinking some pretty deep thoughts...I don't question that I'm happy cause he really is the sweetest, kindest, most considerate man I've ever been with...I just wonder if I'm ready...but who am I to sabotage a good thing just because the timing might not be quite right! Right?

The built in 'family' suits me quite nice...it's really the first time I've dated a guy that has partial custody of his child (week on, week off) - I love his little boy and I can tell he's growing quite fond of me too...wanting to show me all kinds of things that he thinks are neat and cool. I've heard many step-parenting woes through the years and can imagine that if this relationship continues to get serious we will have our ups and downs where that is concerned...but honestly I feel like I'm up for the challenge...

Can I just say that the sexiest thing is watching a man be an outstanding father! Oh and it doesn't hurt he can cook too! lol.

In other news we are gearing up for Halloween - must carve pumpkin...maybe tonight! The boy has his costume and will be dressing up as "Rex" from Star Wars...he's a clone trooper if you didn't know...not to be confused with a storm trooper...as the boy would say.

School is still going well. My boy continues to amaze me with his participation is extra curricular activities at school. Currently he's in handball and is still enjoying being a patrol crosser.

I guess that's my update for now...I would like to promise that I will blog more regularly...but life keeps getting in the way...I hope I still have some readers!

4 comments:

Liz @ Sugarplum Creations said...

I'll always be here reading! :) I understand the feeling. I love to blog, but life is so busy sometimes.

Glad to hear everything is going so well! Sounds like a great relationship, and I am so happy for you!!

Together We Save said...

I am still here!! I love hearing your updates. Glad things are going well and you are taking things slow in the dating world. "T" sounds like a wonderful person! I am glad you are getting along so well with his son too.

natalee said...

Girl..You always have me.. Im sooo excited about the new man... you deserve happiness...miss u

ter@waaoms said...

I still read. Going through alot of similar things lately, and not posting as much. glad things are going well.